When enough is enough
I just recently moved into my own apartmen t. I'm living by myself for the first time ever in my life. Just within the fir st week alone , I learned a lot about mys elf, and also about how much I relied on other peo p le. I became co-dependent in my intimate relationships and other r el ationships as well. For the last 7 or 8 years, I've definitely done a number on my well being. I will keep to the core about most things and spare the details. However, I want to talk about co-dependency and how I did not know that I was definitely becoming just that. "Codependency is a type of dysfunctional helping relationship where one person supports or enables another person's drug addiction, alcoholism, gambling addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. " - Wikip edia For the longest time, I felt that my duties were to be successful as a girlfriend and hopefully , someday, as a wife. I wan t a family, a good job . I want wha ...