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THE FIRST AMENDMENT:  Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances. In other words: don't ever let ANYONE silence you. SPEAK OUT. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT! I just gave birth to a little boy about 2 months ago. I couldn't be happier. Aside from the screaming and sleep deprivation, he's pretty much 13/10 goodest heckin' boy. He has lit up my world, and my husband is absolutely enamored with him. I've been writing blogs since 2016, and I've written about my rape and about abusive relationships that I've been in. Almost every single man that I've been intimate with has had some narcissistic qualities, or has just been 100%  narcissistic. I was a part of a domestic abuse group for a short period of time just to hear what the other me...

To all of the women being accused of being a "home wrecker" or being anything other than your wonderful self... this blog is for us. Let's empathize with each other and take a moment to love our life, ourselves, and most of all, our worth.  We all know that in an intimate relationship, there is always going to be "a bump in the road"... or whatever it's called these days. These bumps can be caused by anything: money, sex, time spent or not enough time spent with your partner, etc. One of the biggest problems with some relationships, that I've experienced, are "external obstacles." In any relationship, there is always going to be a dog in the manger who is going to try and bring you and your partner down as a unit. It could be anyone. Your best friend, your ex girlfriend or boyfriend, your family...anyone. The question is, what do you do in those situations? How can you and your partner thrive when you have those external obstacles? I am ...

I know what you must be thinking. Why on earth would I open up about something so deep? I am an incredibly open person, and I feel strongly about raising awareness. Especially when it comes to the topic of rape. I did as much research on this as I could without breaking down inside, but the truth of it all is that rape happens too often and to too many. I will not go into details, because that might "offend" some people. I only mean that in a sensitive manner. This topic is so vague yet so intimate. Rape happens in so many different ways, but to me it happened brutally. On July 5th, 2017, I was about to discover just how unsafe this city really is. New Mexico, as a state, comes 2nd to Hawaii in crime. Not just rape crime, but crime in general. That is pretty sad. My birthdays for the last few years have not been spent with fun intent. The last time I had a blast on my birthday was when I went to Florida with a former friend to meet another one of our friend's that live...

I just recently moved into my own apartmen t. I'm living by myself for the first time ever in my life. Just within the fir st week alone , I learned a lot about mys elf, and also about how much I relied on other peo p le. I became co-dependent in my intimate relationships and other r el ationships as well. For the last 7 or 8 years, I've definitely done a number on my well being. I will keep to the core about most things and spare the details. However, I want to talk about co-dependency and how I did not know that I was definitely becoming just that. "Codependency is a type of dysfunctional helping relationship where one person supports or enables another person's drug addiction, alcoholism, gambling addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. " - Wikip edia For the longest time, I felt that my duties were to be successful as a girlfriend and hopefully , someday, as a wife. I wan t a family, a good job . I want wha ...